How to select a good spouse
(Prov 12:4 NIV) A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.
Many think divorce can be an easy solution. But God hates divorce (Mal 2:16), and remarriage may not be a viable option for the disciple of Christ - Mt 19:8-9
Seek help from God to find a good wife.
(Prov 19:14 NIV) Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
Do not place priority on “good looks” alone
(Prov 31:30 NIV) Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
Look for a woman who shows discretion.
(Prov 11:22 NIV) Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.
Avoid a woman who is argumentative.
(Prov 19:13 NIV) A foolish son is his father's ruin, and a quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping.